It really depends on how u look at things. You can choose to be ignorant about the whole thing & keep low key the whole time. I've only been in this company for half a year but it look as though i've experienced all this shit. Nah~i'm not talking about myself here, speaking for a colleague of mine. I've had some hostile treatment myself too but i choose to remain nonchalant. If they wanna talk behind my back, go ahead! I really dun give a shit about it coz' my stay here is to work for an income & gain the experience i needed...then i jet off to another company. Sadly, he/she doesn't see the point..
Quote: "i'm resigning b'coz nobody here like me, they all hate me & are against me"
And how many have we hear things like 'i can't talk to u coz u & so-&-so are close/a team'?sounds familiar? coz' that is what we used to do when we're 10! 'don't friend her hor, she & jane best friend..i don't like Jane!'
Prissy's way to stay peace & calm in the company:
1. Remain as low profile as possible, don't go rowdy or beyond the top..chances are co-workers will brand you as 'irritant' and find you a nuisance.
2. Be nice to everyone..by this i don't mean sucking up to them. Just avoid stepping on other ppl's toe & treat everyone fairly.
3. socialise with everyone but pleasssssse don't fake it! don't just befriend with those you like..avoid showing prejudice.
4. Know your purpose working in the company. To earn a living or to gain value experience? Focus on it!
of coz' i don't know how much these will help or have help me pull through working in such an intimidating company. It depends a lot on the individual. But then again, its impossible to get everyone to like you...this is how the society work..isn't it?